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"fantasies have to be unrealistic. because the moment, the second that you get what you seek, you dont, you cant want it anymore. in order to continue to exist, desire must have its objects perpetually absent. it's not the it that you want, its the fantasy of it. so desire supports crazy fantasies. we are only truly happy when daydreaming about future happiness or why we say the hunt is sweeter than the kill, or be careful what you wish for. not because you'll get it, because you're doomed not to want it when you do. so the lesson is living by your wants will never make you happy. what it means to be fully happy, what it means to be fully human is to strive to live by ideas and ideals and not to measure your life by what you have attained in terms of your desires, but those small moments of integrity, compassion, rationality, even self sacrifice, because in the end the only way we can measure the significance of our own lives is by valuing the lives of others."

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